4 reasons why dating is so hard

31-Oct-2017 21:12 by 9 Comments

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Much of what I saw online were single men and women with a laundry list of qualifications for their ideal partner—a trap I all too easily fell in to. Online dating means navigating a slew of qualifications to specify for others and have others specify against or for you.

I signed off because I wanted to enjoy the journey.

So, if you are online, don't get caught up on crossing off a checklist or finding someone that may only exist in your head.

If you find yourself lost in this mistaken way of thinking, maybe online dating isn't the best place for you, or maybe you just need a break.

But if online dating apps and profiles suck your spirit dry, don't worry.

There are difficulties and advantages for both sexes when doing online dating. Women play a mental game of, “Should I reach out first, or should I let him be the aggressor? ” Thus, they often spend a lot of time waiting for men they’re interested in to contact them.

So many websites promise a shot at love and boast sky-high success rates. But in order to put boundaries on my search, my parameters were actually too narrow and closed off to the possibility of finding love in unexpected places.

The turning point for me came when a friend and once-stalwart opponent of online dating created a Tinder profile for himself. That's a difficult thing to capture in an online dating for the sake of your loved one.

Sifting through “smiles” from random strangers can sometimes distract from time spent meeting people where you are and allowing yourself to be pleasantly surprised if and when the lightning bolt of love strikes.

Just because a close friend from high school or college met her significant other online, married him, and is expecting a baby with her now-husband doesn't mean your love story will unfold the same way.

An alternative, suggests one of my friends, is the Twittersphere.

"I'm all about falling in love on Twitter," my friend said after I told her a couple people had DM'ed me about shared interestsexpressed in tweets instead of solely on how attractive they found my profile picture.

I felt like a lot of guys online were "playing the odds," sending a message to every single woman they found slightly attractive, only to drop the ball and never follow-up with their matches.

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