Research on internet dating failures
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Intermediate guys are usually very excited and enthusiastic; it’s almost the opposite of being a beginner.On the flip side, intermediate guys often get easily frustrated.
The women he has sex with range from low-average to the occasional hottie. They are also susceptible to oneitis when they have sex with a really hot woman, as I discussed in item #9 here.
You are a beginner if some of the following conditions describe you: devoting at least three evenings a week, every week, to getting better at your chosen system (night game, daygame, or online dating).
If you have no idea where to start, read this article right now.
If you’ve chosen online dating as your system, get this book. I was beginner for many months, messaging women, going out on dates, dealing with cancels and flakes, dealing with women ghosting me, getting turned down, and wasting a lot of time and money.
If your system involves one-on-one dates / meetups, get this book. Being a beginner is the worst stage of these three stages, so you want to put in as much work as possible to get through this stage as fast as possible.
If they do get laid, and usually they don’t, it’s almost by accident, in that they happen to be exactly the woman’s type to begin with and didn’t screw it up too badly.
Most beginners tend to come in two flavors; young guys who haven’t had a lot of woman experience yet, and older guys who are just out of a long-term relationship or divorce, and who are very out of practice.
I’m sure other dating experts / PUA gurus will have definitions for these three terms that may look different from mine, and that’s fine.
I’m just here to tell you what these three terms mean to me when I happen to use them in my writings.
In examining my system, I found that perhaps making out with a woman on an online first date wasn’t a good idea, so I tested not kissing a woman at all on a first date, and instead saving that for the second date where I intended to have sex. I only had this problem with some women; other women had sex with me on the second date with no problem at all.
Reviewing my spreadsheets at the time, I was shocked to see that something like 95% of these ASD women were age 33 or over. Could something as simple as age make that big of a difference? I stopped messaging all women online who are age 33 or above, and holy shit, my lay ratios .
One notch above these guys are extroverted virgins who’ve never had sex, but have lots of female friends and have never learned how to get out of friend zone.