The offline online dating site

23-Nov-2017 10:04 by 8 Comments

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I’ve experienced this myself in the past, in high school.Not so “hunky” guys became very attractive to me when they paid me enough or the right kind of attention.

Those words mean more coming from someone whose intentions are just to get to know me and enjoy my company as opposed to picking me out of a lineup on an online dating site.

The older I get, the less I’m prepared to cross my fingers and hope I’ll “grow into” an attraction for someone. I’ve also learned that the attractive guy, in his charming, 25-year-old ways, has lost me the minute he opens his mouth.

Sure, if I’m ever desperate again for a trist, I might look him up.

Finding myself alone, bored on a Saturday night, and beat down by the holidays, constantly reminded of how I’m not part of a couple to celebrate the festivities with, I saw the ad for a free trial on an online dating site. What have I learned from my most recent experience with online dating, you ask?

The idea of online dating leaves a sour taste in my mouth to begin with. ) lonely, I’d given this “new kind of dating” a try. Well, most importantly, I learned that not only was I bored, but I was trying to distract myself from feeling pathetic, with my most recent venture in “finding love” squelched when the guy chose another over me.

The biggest lesson, I think, is that I am not ready to settle (as I see it) for online dating. I put a little more stock in it after a conversation with a high school friend whose oldest sister met, dated, and married a man from an online dating site. But while I still have the ability to write MY story, I choose real life. 2013 is going to be my year - turning 30 is just the beginning.

And I certainly will not PAY for men’s attentions or potential dates. I choose continuing my project of becoming the best-version-of-myself, offline. As I went to close my account, ending my online dating for good (for now) I was irritated to find the “please don’t go” plea not to unsubscribe – it’s rough out there, and the chances of you finding someone you’re COMPATIBLE with are slim to none, without our help. The “matches” I’d been set up with – out of 20 – only maybe five of them were within my “criteria.” The rest came with a line like “this person is outside your preferences, but could still be a good match for you.” Really? Each day, I'm one step closer to becoming the best-version-of-myself.You don’t think I can find someone “outside” of what I’d prefer on my own? I’ll take my chances out there, without your help, thanks. I'm learning to fight for what's best for me, expect to get back the love I put out, and fall in love with myself first.Or even a friend – male or female – who compliments me on my beauty as a whole person.No, “hello, beautiful” means much more to me coming from someone who appreciates all of me. If I have to tell you and you don’t take the time to discover that on your own, you can hit the road, Jack.A certain type of dress – revealing, low-cut shirts, short skirts, etc – will get your attention alright. And do you see “forever” with these boys – ahem, men – who take note and approach you based on these outward appearances? Don’t get me wrong, I like to try to look my best when I go out.

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